Eyes Wide Shut

This Fantasy is one way to build trust and have fun.

Not only can you enjoy this fantasy for hours, it's also a great way to spend a Saturday night at home.

Here's the overall theme...

One of you will be blindfolded while the other gets to be in charge.

Sight deprivation expands your capacity to feel.  Once you no longer have the certainty of your sight to rely on...your perspective of the world and your immediate surroundings goes topsy turvy.

That turns other sensory perceptions on high.

Because your focus gets shifted on the remaining sense perceptions, you experience a surge of awareness in other sensory zones. Your hearing becomes more keen.  Taste and tongue become more sensitive. Your nose becomes your guide.  Your skin, goes on guard. The hairs stand up to grab all the invisible information in the air.

Your mind becomes more alert and lucid.

It's almost impossible to be bored with you can't see. 

Your imagination pumps you with information.  Your anticipation into becomes your body's chemistry lab, sending shivers tiny little electric currents along the back of your neck and into your cells into your bloodstream.  You can feel more, your entire being becomes more sensitive.

Guidelines for Eyes Wide Shut fantasy.

• Choose who will be the giver and who will be the receiver

Instructions for The Receiver.

1. You choose the foreplay style.
2. You'll remain blindfolded throughout.
3. You'll be sure to respond to your stage name.
4. You are not allowed to use any words. (expect the password)
5. You look for creative ways of communicating, what you like.

Directions for The Giver.

1. You agree to follow the receivers foreplay style
2. You'll assign the receiver a sexy stage name
3. Set and stage three seduction scenes in various locations
4. When your beloved does something that pleases you - you can reward her with a kiss. (chocolate or otherwise)

The Giver chooses the Foreplay Seduction scenes.

Role-play Assignment: Alien Abduction

• Rent a limo for an hour. Drive your beloved around blindfolded while sipping Champagne.
• Place your beloved in the back seat of your car, drive to a secluded spot. Feast on Foreplay Foods.

Role-play Assignment: Food Fantasy

• Blind fold your beloved. Lead them into the kitchen. Sit them down and feed them Foreplay Food. Include things like ice cream, chocolate, strawberries, whip cream. Empty out the refrigerator if you have to.

Role-play Assignment: The Foreplay Camera

• The Giver is the photographer. Blindfold your beloved. Take pictures of them, in various states of undress. Use different rooms and different locations. Try to capture the "look" of vulnerability.

Popular "Re-names" for Women

Popular "Re-names" for Men

Here are some classic examples.

In the Kitchen - Plan your Food Foreplay scene.  Prepare your favorite foreplay tray, and feed them.  Don't forget to use the shock value of ice.

Don't forget to remember that know that they don't have sight.

Tonight, you wrestle blindfolded in the dark.  There should be no talking.  The sensuous wrestling should be done in the silence and in the dark.  Try to make your sounds interesting.   This fantasy foreplay is all about surrender and sensual wrestling.

What You Need

1. Play sheets. (use a shower curtain liner for protection)
2. 2 comfortable blind folds.
3. Foreplay Music - Music to Make Love To CD.
4. 3 or more bottles of lubricant or almond oil.
5. Darkened room.

What You Do

1. Prepare comfortable slippery place to wrestle on the floor.
2. Make sure there's plenty of room to roll around.
3. Turn on some sensuous music undress.
4. Lather each other generously with oil.
5. Blind fold each other.
6. Commence sensuous wrestling.

Rules of Sensuous Wrestling

1. No hold downs, tie-backs or painful holds.
2. Three taps on the floor means "I Surrender".
3. One tap means time out.
4. Winner is first one to get the other in position for penetration.
5. In this ritual, penetration means penalty.